When Is It Time to Consider Assisted Living for Your Loved One?

Published on January 22, 2025.

Survey after survey tells us what we already know in our hearts to be true— most of us want to live in our homes as long as possible. That widely shared desire makes sense. We’re living longer, and research shows age-related decline is happening later and later. That’s definitely reason to be optimistic and take care of our health.

But that’s not to say all aspects of aging and well-being are under our control. Even the best laid plans don’t work out, and some of us will need assistance as we get older. That assistance can range from a helpful neighbor to shovel your sidewalks in winter to in-home care for help with dressing or bathing. Assisted living communities offer many benefits to those who need assistance.

What is assisted living care

Assisted living care is a type of senior housing that offers a balance of independence and support for older adults who need help with daily activities such as bathing, dressing, managing medications, and meal preparation. Residents live in private or shared apartments within a community setting, benefiting from access to social activities, wellness programs, and 24/7 on-site staff. Assisted living emphasizes maintaining a sense of autonomy while providing the assistance needed to enhance safety, comfort, and quality of life.

Many older adults thrive in these environments where their responsibilities are few and they enjoy many opportunities for socialization, exercise, and activities. Still, there can be some reluctance.  Some older adults may be hesitant to acknowledge that they need more help. There are some telltale signs that your loved one is struggling to care for themselves. Here are five times you should consider a move to long-term care.

1. Accidents happen. One fall may not be an immediate cause of concern, but multiple falls are dangerous. Each additional fall could cause more serious health outcomes, including broken bones, hospitalization, or social isolation out of fear and anxiety. With intervention and supervision, someone who has experienced a fall can maintain and even improve gait and balance, preventing further falls.
2. Poor hygiene. Unkempt hair or clothing may be a sign that your loved one is no longer able to bathe regularly or keep up with laundry. Issues with toileting may exacerbate these problems. Assisted living care can help older adults regain the dignity of personal hygiene and appearance.
3. Unsafe living conditions. Has your loved one accidentally left the oven on? Is there rotten food on the counters? Are they unable to replace the lightbulb in the bathroom? Age-related cognitive decline can eventually make living at home dangerous.
4. Social isolation. While mom and dad may want to live at home as long as possible, it can get lonely, especially if they are no longer able to drive. Socialization is important for health, especially as we get older. Assisted living offers socialization in a safe and supportive environment.
5. Caregiver burnout. Last, let’s discuss caregiver burnout. Caring for a loved one is a rewarding but very challenging role to take on. However, caregiving must not take place at the expense of a caregiver’s own health. Research tells us that caregivers, particularly the ones who are also caring for young children or maintaining a career, experience a serious decline in mental and physical health while fulfilling this role. As the saying goes, you can’t pour from an empty cup. And it’s crucial that family caregivers recognize when it’s time to let the professionals take over. It’s not a personal failure to want the best care for your loved one.

Assisted Living in Richmond Heights, OH

Recognizing that a loved one needs assisted living care is the first step in helping them get qualified care from compassionate and kind professionals. At Richmond Heights Senior Living, we pride ourselves on helping families make this transition in a supportive and empowering environment. Contact us or take a tour to see for yourself.